Why I’m doing this and a call for questions

Why would I want to give away free advice when it took me so long and so much hard work to get where I am? Read on… 

I want to help those that are new to the used panties trade to find their way. I have been receiving plenty of comments from people that are similar to the, “I learned it all myself, why shouldn’t newbies have to go through the same thing?” I disagree with this. 

Although I did most of my learning myself, I had friends who helped me along the way and that’s important in the used panty fetish community. If you don’t actively join the community part of the community and just sell, you’ll be in it by yourself and won’t get help, or be able to give it. (It’s also much more fun being involved in the community!) 

In a way I’m “paying forward” all the wonderful advice and help I’ve received from this community to new people who really won’t know where to start or know where to get help. I’m always available to help newbies and feel that I am approachable. 

So I’m putting this forward: I will be going away for a few months’ and want to write up some advice pieces now so I can schedule them to appear while I’m away, so those seeking advice know it’s there, and when they find the website they can email me their own questions. 

If you have any questions that have not been answered, please send an email or a tweet. I will answer them on my blog and everyone can benefit. 

Let’s pay it forward together guys! 

Belle

xox

Should you show your face?

A very personal question and before you consider showing your face perhaps you should think about the fall out if you were “outed” as a panty girl at work, home, school, with your friends and acquaintances. Think about the worst possible outcome and weather you’d be able to deal with that. Yes the internet is very big but it is also very small. 

If being outed doesn’t bother you, consider that it could make you more personable and make buyers relate to you easier. It’s also easier to take self-shot photo’s if you don’t have to worry about hiding or cropping out your face. 

If you decide not to show your face however, stick to it. Even sending one picture to one buyer could easily have your face smeared on the internet and be the end of your fun in the used panty fetish scene as well as other possible consequences that you’ve already imagined. 

I’ve never showed my face and never will. I, like most of you don’t want the worst to happen. That myth about you not being a real person if you don’t show your face? I’ve countered that by being verified by a third party, Panty Trust (as mentioned in a previous post). I’ve also been around for a while and don’t feel my success has been harmed by not showing my face.  

Most buyers will understand your need for privacy as most buyers also have a need for a bit of privacy and discretion themselves. You respect them, and of course they’ll respect you. 

Belle

xox