Non-buyer & Time waster: What’s the difference?

Twitter’s full of them: panty sellers complaining about time wasters, warning others to stay away from this guy! Not all people approaching you who don’t buy are time wasters though and it’s important to see the difference if you want to be a successful used panty seller!

I see a non-buyer as being different to a time waster because usually a non-buyer although not ready to buy yet, doesn’t want as much from you. He genuinely wants a friendly hello or to get to know you better, he’s the guy who’ll add you to twitter and chat to you occasionally. He’s not eager to buy yet, but he’s not taking up much of your time and energy anyway, and he may even be making you smile so you don’t mind that he’s not buying your used panties!

Then there’s plenty of guys who come in, talking about their fetishes and how all your fetishes just match and isn’t it wonderful and they want you to send them panties, but oh wait – no they can’t because they don’t like your payment methods, they don’t want the wife to find the panties they bought, they respect you too much to treat you like a sex object or they just don’t have the cash right now. This is after eating up as much of your time online as they possibly could and asking as many probing personal questions as they could so they could “get to know you better”.

The truth is this guy’s a time waster. He doesn’t want your panties, chances are he doesn’t even share the fetish. He just wants to talk to a pretty girl because pretty girls just won’t talk to him in real life –or even online – wonder why pretty girls wouldn’t want to talk to a guy who was that self-obsessed and needy? 

The best way to deal with a time waster is to just ignore them when you find out what they are, if there’s an option to block, do it! They’re not going to give you anything in the way of positive energy and are going to detract from the fun of selling panties, don’t feel mean when getting rid of them. They wouldn’t feel mean getting rid of you if you didn’t serve there means. 

It may seem hard in the beginning to spot the difference between the two and occasionally if you’ve got enough time wasters trying to suck at your energy it can be easy to over-look other people, that’s why it’s important when someone is taking, taking, taking from you that you just block them. It might be hard at first, but after the first few it gets much easier seeing how much better you feel!

Look after yourself – the used panty business has taught me a whole lot about the flow of energy between people and how to spot those that just want to take, you can learn this too and let it make powerful positive changes in your life and used panty business!